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Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Trailer time... Again!

Blogging took a backseat the last couple weeks. We were prepping for a trip to the imperial desert (glamis) 650 miles away, almost to the Mexican border.

Chris planned this trip over a year ago, when Ara was first born. I like to think that we were a little over-zealous and for sure overly confident in our parenting and coordinating abilities. As we got closer and closer to the trip I had a lot of dread and anticipation even though I knew it was something Chris has really been looking forward to.

I'm going to let the photos do the talking instead of giving a day by day play by play... Also because the days kinda blurred together! When you're living in very close quarters with 4 people and playing in the sand all day without agenda the time goes slowly.



 The sunsets were just gorgeous and the lighting was really beautiful. I'm hoping for a new flash for xmas to up the photo quality.
 These two rolled all over the desert.
 I took a lot of photos of the children, this post is just a fraction of them.
 Chris had a minor mishap with the hub/lugnuts on the rear tire, requiring a second trip into town. This was after his morning trip into town to run a diagnostic test on his truck as the check engine light came on about 60 miles into our trip. "Town" was about 40 minutes away.
 My sweet boy adventuring.
 Sand. Seriously. Everywhere.
 Contemplating the dunes and their expanse.
 One happy duning daddy.
 Seriously these desert skies were to live for!
 My hearts!
 Britton Selfie
 The ice cream truck drove by every 30 minutes starting at 8am... Chris and Amanda had these about 7 years ago, so of course I had to re-create it!
 Owen had about 20 licks of this gigantic rocket pop
 The more RV trips we take the more prep I do ahead of time, meal wise. Our dinner menu this trip was: zpie, turkey lettuce wraps, chili and cornbread, polenta, pizza (trader joes dough) and Baked salsa chicken. I did cook aka throw together this yummy breakfast of apples, quinoa, steel cut oats, almonds, cinnamon, coconut oil, and apple juice. It was really yummy.
 These gals set up quite the outdoor kitchen for cooking up the greasy stuff you don't want hanging out in your trailer, bacon and sausage.
 Goof!
 Chris and O racing around a bowl.
 So much fun! Owen would protest a ride for a while, shed a few tears, and then have a total blast once in the RZR. Chris converted a booster seat plus the 5 point restraint system plus an awesome helmet. The coolest thing (that I was a little grumbly about to be honest) was the intercom system. We could listen to music and then if one of us talked it cut out over the music and we could hear each other. This was KEY for communication with each other, but especially with kids. Also we used CB's that were tied into the intercom system as well. Pretty sweet even though I was resistant to the investment (ha, me frugal? go figure...)
 THIS BOY! He has a history of disliking loud noises, even with things he loves like monster trucks, and racing cars. He ROCKED the Drag races on Saturday night. He was dancing around, clapping, and just having the time of his life watching the cars race down the strip.
 A "duner" as Owen called it.
 People lined up for at least 200 yards along side the drags.
Another amazing sunset


 Driving time was 11:56, travel time was about 14 hours.
 Trailer kids
 Chillin in the sand.
 Two thumbs up!
 Wood is so enticing you know.
She napped well but was up 3+ times per night.
 Yet another gorgeous sky.


 Tarantula home?




 caged them sometimes to avoid chasing them in opposite directions.
 Morning skies also quite amazing.
 We camped with some old friends who seemed to know about 30 trailers around us. They are retired and have been there a month are staying 3 weeks into december.
 Owen had a blast coloring outside with his friend Krista.





 Crusty morning snuggle faces full of love. So glad to have so much time with my bests.
 Awesome Auntie Amanda & Ara. She watched sis so we could go to the drags, so cool!


 Sometimes you need a rest in the sand.
 And a wrestle.
 And a roll.
 And an attack.
 Josh and Sandy cruising nearby.
 There are no hookups, you have to haul everything in and out. There are flatter areas where people park, but nowhere to dump your waste, fill up or dump water, etc. So we were pretty conservative with our water usage. I've never smelled stinky feet on a baby, but after wearing tennis shoes every day for a week, Ara's feet were ranky. We did bathe the kids a few times, and Chris and I took 2 brief and efficient showers... Yipes!
 Another example of the trailers lining the desert. They kept coming in, more each day. Holiday weeks are big duning traditions in the sand toy world.

 Profile pic of my handsome hus.
 The dunes have a mysterious sense of beauty and calm. This may or may not be felt while on a RZR ride. Sometimes it feels like Mr. Toads wild ride.




As soon as we pulled up I immediately had a huge sense of relief. All of the preparation, anticipation, etc of the trip melted away. The kids really do well in the car, although O needs detox of the kindle after every road trip. He does well with books and a white board as well, but of course prefers technology.

The lows of the trip included Paul injuring his knee prior to the trip, having a trailer mishap on the way, our check engine light on, hub issue, extremely long truck ride, sore back for me, cooking a plastic cutting board on accident, and multiple wake ups at night.

The highs of course were many!!! Arabelle loved the sensory experience, as well as meeting new people. Owen played in the sand all day long, and slept 7-7 most nights. The campfires were relaxing and we met many new very kind people. The food was good, the company great. I finished a book I'd been working on for a few months, as well as 10+ magazines. I got a 3 mile solo run in and almost daily walks. Nana and I had some downtime with the kids. Papa and Ara had many cuddles. Chris got some dune riding in, riding the sand highway to the mexico/US border. We had some belly laughs playing hide and go seek in Nana and Papas trailer. Ara started saying Uh-oh. Owen was a quiet rider, saying "I just love you guys" many times over the intercom while riding. We would sing songs and quote the Cars and Planes movies. We were in bed most nights by 930, really feeling the effects of the time change a month ago, plus being out in the sun all day we were like chickens roosting when the sun went down. Plus the majority of the people camping around us were retired and early to bed.  Owen learned what the word nutritious meant and spent a lot of the drive asking "Is ______ nutritious?" Of course that made me VERY happy. He is slowly realizing a lot of his preferences aren't in the very nutritious category...

A wonderful trip! I'm looking forward to hunkering down, enjoying the holidays and prep and family time around here, where we only drive 30-45 minutes to get to our destinations!

Friday, November 7, 2014

These days

These days are so treasured! These kids are little bffs. Ara pretty much wants to do whatever brother is doing. 
On Halloween we made roasted veggies shaped like pumpkins using cookie cutters.
Owen and I having a tea party at "mamas restaurant" (also known as the kitchen island). 

This one loves dogbowls. I made the mistake of letting her play with an empty metal one once and now she is obsessed. 
This happens daily!
I ran the risk of waking him up... It is just too sweet, sleeping with his monkey, as well as his baby (between his shoulder and his ear!)
Stuck between a rock and a hard place (another rock!).
A perfect Fall afternoon  at Hooverville orchards with Lainey. 
Why not pull up a chair and hug?
Furry boots, dirty bum, and rubber boots. My thoughts exactly. 
He just knows about the bigger picture. 
We love each other. I got to hang with this sweet gal 1:1. I was going to walk the girls in the stroller but Arabelle was sleeping in the car so Zoey and I had some great bird watching sessions, ant scoping adventures, and snuggles. 

Life is so good. These are a few of my favorite moments. My heart is so full lately, many blessings felt daily. 









Tuesday, November 4, 2014

It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving

I just love that quote by Mother Teresa. She was quite a gal.

We look forward to this time of year for many reasons. One of them is our annual UCSF toy & supply drive. We started doing the drive when Owen was an infant after we had so much support in our 4 weeks at UCSF. Of course this cause is near and dear to our hearts, as we have spent over 2 months of our lives there. The length of time used to sound long, and to some it may be- but we know the reality of many children's lives is many months in the hospital.

Supporting UCSF Child Life not only supports the children but the parents as well. Many needs are to help stock the Parent Resource Room which is a small place of respite, some place to go when your kiddo is asleep, or in a procedure, or in therapy. It has a library, a coffee maker, and toiletries if you so desire. It also has a window and comfy seats, and is quiet. We visited the room a few times, it's a nice place to go for a little break.

No matter how prepared you think you may be for a hospitalization, there is something that will be forgotten. The routine and monotony of the day can get wearing on the kids so having new items to borrow from Child Life is really a treat. Owen was able to borrow new toys, and do crafts when he was up for it.

We will get the donations to UCSF and you can contact me via email @ chelsea.britton@yahoo.com comment on here, facebook, instagram, whatever works!

Here is their wish list:

Child Life Services
A hospital stay can be a challenging and unfamiliar experience for children and their families.
UCSF Benioff Children’s Hospital Child Life Services creates opportunities for children, teens and families to play, learn, and discover every day at UCSF Benioff Children’s Hospital. Thank you for your generosity in supporting these programs.
Toy Donation Guidelines These guidelines help to ensure donations are appropriate and safe for hospitalized children. Please follow these guidelines when selecting items for donation.
Because of infection control issues, toys must be new.  Please do not wrap gifts.  No weapons or violent games of any kind, please.  Please make sure that glue, paint, markers or crayons are non-toxic.  No latex balloons.
Limited need for stuffed animals.
Items of Greatest Need
Infant Items Light spinners Art kits
Infant Items
Nesting Cups Crib mirrors Interactive noise & light toys Sock & wrist rattles
Toddler & School Age Items
Electronic push button toys Small cars & trucks (hot-wheels) Barbies (clothes & accessories) Interactive toys for toddlers Musical instruments Brio and plastic train cars Plastic play food Animals & Dinosaurs (plastic) Toddler/School Age books in Spanish Transformers
Teen Items Interactive toys
Teething rings White noise machines Board books
Plastic dolls (multicultural) Play-doh & play-doh kits Thomas Trains Pop up toys
Little People Board Games Dora and Diego toys Stickers Puzzles (24 to 100 pieces) Medium sized toy cars
Fisher Price Little People Batteries (C & D)
Plastic rattles Plastic crib mobiles Links
Fisher Price doctor kits Craft kits Legos & lego kits Musical toys
Action figures (no guns) Cartoon character toys My Little Ponies Books that make noise Travel gamesTeen Items
Gift cards (Target, Amazon, Best Buy) I-tunes cards Movie passes Baseball hats
Video games Individual acrylic paint sets Perfume/cologne
Creative Arts Items
Drawing pads Individual paint sets Beginner music instr. Books Paint by number kits
Games & Electronics
CDs (children/teen music) I-pads X-Box 360 Console
Parent/Family Support Items
Blank Journals and pens Magazines or subscriptions (US Weekly, People, Spanish) Wrapped candy, snacks & bottled water Stamps, envelopes & stationery Toiletries: Shampoo, Conditioner, nail clippers, hairbrushes Individually wrapped snacks (popcorn, granola bars, etc.) Chap stick $5 Subway Cards Kleenex Slipper socks Hand Sanitizer
Art & bead kits Backpacks Blank CD-Rs Teen board games/cards Sports balls/gift cards Metal water bottles
Shave kits for teen boys
Michael’s gift cards Drawing pads Guitar picks Stickers
CD players E & E10 Games for PS4 E & E10 Games for X-Box 360
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Journals Make-up sets Headphones DVDs Neck pillows Teen male t-shirts
Modeling clay Small portable music stands Glue (tacky, mod podge) Scrapbooking stickers (baby)
Batteries (C & AA) PS4 controllers & USB cords
Gum, Mints Journals & pens Water Bottles Crossword/Sudoku puzzles Starbucks Gift Cards ($5) Massage knobs/rollers Ear plugs, Eye Masks Hot chocolate packs, K-Cup coffee (Regular and Decaf) Laundry Detergent Pods Gas cards

Another fun option is to find actual kid's wish lists on amazon. Here is the link to that:
We are in greatest need of gifts for infants and teens.  Our full wish list can be found at Amazon.com, search for  “Audrey Muntz” under Find Someone’s Wish List or go to here: Link to individual children's wish lists.



In addition to our toy drive this year we have decided to fundraise for a very sweet family. The strong 4 year old boy Paxton has Ebstein's Anomaly like Owen. Unlike Owen he has additional medical conditions that require a huge amount of care, appointments, therapy, and add uncertainty to his world.  He also has had multiple hospitalizations this year. He has been battling seizures that put him into respiratory arrest every time. His loving mother continues to be positive, shining her light on those she meets, and keeps on trucking. She has inspired me in ways she will never know. She has held my hand and heart this whole time, supported us in our journey with Owen.  My wish is to lessen her stressors in any way we can.

Our goal is to raise enough money to fund 2 plane tickets, as they have upcoming trips to Boston to see specialists.

Click here to access the "go fund me" website to donate online to Paxton and his mom Susanne.

So, in the spirit of Thanksgiving, please consider any sized donation a BIG help! My mom always taught me that "every little bit helps" and I could not agree more. Thank you oh so much for reading and consider supporting one or both of our causes this season!