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Tuesday, December 20, 2011

It's beginning to look a lot like...

We sure had fun this year, as Owen's curiosity seems to be at an all time peak! He just doesn't miss a thing. 


 Playing with the non breakable ornaments.

 Helping decorate the tree.
 I loved seeing the new ornaments from last year of Owen's, it was a treat to open them up and see the photos of our lil guy.
 Last week we took a truckload of toys down to UCSF. We advertised our efforts on facebook, and Chris at work, and we had many takers. From friends and family we estimated about $600-700 worth of toys. Such a neat thing for the kids. Some items were for the departments, like crayons and dvds, and other items were for kids specifically like nurse barbies, hats, baby dolls, and sock monkeys. Owen enjoyed an Easter basket when we were there in April, and with the holidays coming up it just made sense to do. Chris and I did this last year but just a big box that we mailed. This was super cool.

 Out front with the loot.
5 minutes before the workers were supposed to meet us, Owen decided to lose his lunch right there in the truck...We were scrambling to clean everything up, change him, and be somewhat presentable to the gift receivers. Whew. Thank goodness Chris and I were both there. Sometimes you just need 2 extra hands.

We also stayed with my dad for a few days and enjoyed the visit and food (duh!). Dad and I had a nice walk thru Atherton, where the homes were quite expensive. We hung out with Matt, my dad's roomie from Iraq, and caught up with some of his new and old stories. Thanks for letting us crash dad. It was very relaxing and fun to see you twice in one week. Owen did a LOT of walking on his own to his Papa. He is saying Papa like crazy these days.

We wish you all a very very Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and New Year. May 2012 bring health, happiness, peace, and excitement into your lives. We are excited for what is ahead. 2011 was such a roller coaster year, but roller coasters are pretty breathtaking. MUCH LOVE TO THOSE NEAR AND FAR!

Monday, December 5, 2011

Cardio Update

Just had an EKG this week and there weren't any changes! We prepared for an echo as well but Owen didn't get one. Whew! Keeping a 16month old still for a few minutes is challenging enough for the EKG, let alone 30+minutes for the echo. Guess when our next appointment is? (for cardiology) MAY!!! 6 months out! Wow! We have been going monthly or every other month since we found out about Owen's heart when I was 5 months pregnant. Of course we have many other appointments but this was AWESOME!!!

Owen's Stats-
(For his biggest fans)
Weight- 23# 8ounces
Length- 30inches
Words- BOMB, MOM, POP, BOTTOM, HAT, HOT, RA, BLU
Favorite activities- Pushing his train around, wrestling, pointing (when asked) where is the clock, outside, birds, turkeys, horses, fan, etc. He will also hold up his hand and feet when asked and sniff his nose when we ask where his nose is. He has been giving high 5's for a while, but is more and more consistent with his pointing to objects. It is so fun to communicate!
Favorite foods- water, goldfish, chips

Love this boy! He is doing so well! Still has OT once a week, and will start Speech Therapy twice a month soon. GI appointment next week. A shoutout to Baby Evan, Owen's best friend. He is still going through chemo, his second round finishes up right after Christmas. He may be having surgery later this Winter to remove his tumor. He is growing, and walking, and all over the place. Owen plays with him like nothing is going on. Evan is such a stud!! Love him!

Saturday, December 3, 2011

2011 Harvest tally

In January every year I hit up the calendar section at Borders. I guess I will have to try for Barnes and Noble this year... I get a wall one, a desk one, and a purse one. They each have different purposes. The wall one and purse one both have birthdays, but the purse one always has more information on it. The desk one is strictly a garden journal. This year was my favorite one, "Under the Tuscan Sun," complete with beautiful photos from Italy, recipes, and of course italian vegetable photos. The 7 days on a page style is perfect for a garden journal, and I put recommended things to do on the top part of the day and things that I actually did, what was growing, what what ready for harvest, etc on the bottom part of the day. I recently viewed a friend's oh so organized spreadsheet of her own garden harvest. This is much more user friendly, neat and clean, but I find it easier to write down a quick tally. The only drawback is storing the journal once it's completed. But it's also my own personal almanac! I will share some photos  from the year, most of which I haven't posted. The bottom is our tally. We are still hoping to do a small CSA next year between a few family members and friends. We love doing it, and will be expanding the garden anyway, so why not share our produce even more? We also hope to share some of the load, ha! Some folks can't or don't want their own garden but love it, so we would love to host an informal community garden. Even if we get people in the dirt a day or two that would be great! Almost all of our seeds were from Baker Creek Heirloom company. We also obtained some seedlings from Headstart Nursery, but didn't have as much success with those. 
 Our watermelons were so yummy! The only bummer was the crop wasn't very high. They were pretty good sized.
 The spaghetti squash came early on, and I just ate the last one a week ago.
 My prized cosmos didn't do as well this year. I planted cosmos and sunflowers at the end of each row. This was also the drier part of the dirt, and cosmos needed more water than they received.
 Some wild parts to our garden this year!! The weeds got out of hand even with the plastic laid down over the crop rows. I also jumped the gun and planted potatoes before the plastic was down and so the potato patch was crazy with weeds.
 The sunflowers were so much fun. We kept them up for a while because when the leaves are a little crunchy and the wind blows, it is such a nice natural wind chime.
 Some of the black eyed pea harvest. The pod and the shelled peas. There was 2 harvests of these. We hadn't grown these before, and were a nice treat as well as very storable. We had 6 plants, and got a decent output.
 Octopus squash!
 Melons!

 Goofy Chris holding our sizeable melons!
 This crookneck was a mutant! The whole stalk of the plant was over 4 ft long and the entire plant was covered with squash just as shown above. I counted 21 squash on it at one time. It was a huge producer!
 A quick beer and garden harvest one night.
 Pretty heirlooms.
Granny smiths.

Here we go
Garden Tally 2011 (Spring-Summer-Fall)
Eggs- 3 per day until July... 540 eggs, 45 dozen eggs
Carrots-75/ ~9#
Broccoli- 2 small heads
Chard- 10 large bunches, did not count the all the chard we got over the winter!
Radish-30
Lettuce- 10 heads
Baby greens- Large salad per week for 2 months in spring and now.
Cilantro- 8 bunches
Parsley- 20 bunches recorded (still going strong, really the only thing down at the garden to harvest. Get 2 bunches/week!)
Russet Potatoes- 4#
Red La Soda Potatoes- 18#
Fingerling Potatoes 22#
Yukon Gold Potatoes- 6#
Kale- 15 bunches
Heirloom cucumbers- 68
Snowpeas- 25
Yellow squash- 86
Zucchini- 105
Blueberries- 6 ounces
Green beans- (first year, from 6 plants!) approx. 28#
Jalapenos- too many from 4 plants, lost count after 200...
Garlic- 6 large bulbs, after a few sacrificial heads were pulled too early
Purple green beans- 5#
Baskets of cherry tomatoes- mixed types-@ 2.5# each 72 baskets or 180# of cherry tomatoes
Tomatillos- baskets 2# each, 25 baskets, ~200 tomatillos
Lemon basil- 12 bunches
Basil- 19 bunches
Spaghetti squash-5
Black eyed peas- hulled peas- 3 pounds/ 9 cups of dried beans.
Soy beans- 10 ounces of in-shell beans
Corn-16 edible ears
Granny Smith Apples-15
Larger Heirloom tomatoes- 26
Sunflowers- 20, (still harvesting the seeds...very time consuming)
Cosmos- 10 bunches
Watermelons- 6 total, 2 @9#, 1 @ 11#, 3 @ 4#
Honeydew-3
Butternut squash- 3 @ 7"
Green Zebra Tomatoes- 24
Acorn Squash- 1 small where I planted jumbo pumpkins? no pumpkins either...

We had a great year! Every year is a true experiment! We love not going to the store. I didn't calculate the cost savings of all this produce this year because we give it away as well. But I can tell you were were really only going to the store for yogurt and fruit! We are hoping our mandarin trees take off, but that still won't help us in the summer. Luckily we are very close to many orchards where we have been enjoying pears, apples, mandarins, and walnuts. I even purchased strawberries in november. This is pretty crazy, even for California! I froze a ton of them so we can enjoy them through the winter.

Chris is in the process of increasing our garden's size to almost double. The layout will be a little different, as well as a permanent path. To those of you who have visited, you know the current path is quite rustic. I will be thankful for that, and so will the stroller. When we were pulling out the tomato cages and the plastic Chris and I had our first tomato fight. We decided it was going to be an annual tradition. In late october there were still so many tomatoes on the plants, even though most had rotted. It was pretty fun to run around dodging each other's tomato bullet. Owen sure got a kick out of it as well.

WHAT's in the dirt right now?
Up at the house, I have so much mesclun lettuce, a decent amount of Kale, basil (well protected from the frost). I have planted oodles of garlic, onions, and a decent amount of broccoli, cauliflower, and brussels. They are looking pretty healthy but I have never planted the latter 3 veggies with good success. Here's hoping!

We have been considering taking a 100 mile challenge. I recently read a book about 2 Canadian journalists who did just that- only ate food grown or made within 100 miles of their home. This would be much easier for us here in Cali. It is also very handy to have the deep freezer and canning abilities. Chris and I have a lot of fun planning, planting, and harvesting, who knew we would be country kids?

Friday, November 25, 2011

On the tele

Well I finally have the app for blogger... Makes blogging even easier! We had a great thanksgiving, were able to see both sides of our family. Chris was at work but now has 5 days off to hang out. Owen had a blast with his cousins, and even got to see his cousin Mat who was in town from AZ. Owen dipped his veggie stick in some gravy, but most of it got on his shirt. His small incision is healing up very well. Just wanted to do a quick post on the tele:).

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Wired

Owen's chest has been irritated over the last month or so. We had visited our regular MD who said to just watch it. We all agreed that it was irritated over one of his sternal wires. Everything is at the same height as his chest-the fireplace where he pushes his cars, the benches at our kitchen table. The status changed drastically in just a few hours on Monday. It appeared as if the wires were trying to come through his chest that night. I was on hold in putting Owen to sleep, as Chris was trying to call UCSF as well as our regular cardiologist. We decided to put Owen down, get some good sleep, as we both knew nothing was probably going to happen that night. Also, Owen wasn't showing any signs of pain. When we heard back from our cardiologist we had a chest xray at 8am and an appointment at 830. We didn't know what to expect so we packed for SF as well!

The Xray confirmed that the wire had broken...And it needed to come out.  We held tight while he paged the surgeon to see when we could get in. He told us to sit tight and he would let us know as soon as the surgeon got back to him. We thought we may be waiting a while...But only 10minutes later there was a plan! Come back at 4 for admitting, and surgery will be around 5. You will be the 7th case... WOW! Guess he had a busy day... We were used to being first case, but those surgeries have a few more things going on.

So we packed up all Owen's toys, drove home, took naps, and went for a beautiful walk. Chris and I joke about us always sleeping when Owen has surgery/ surgery day, but it really is a nice stress reliever, re-charger, and way to pass the time! We headed back down the hill, checked in, and were hanging out in the pre-op area in no time. Owen was having a ball. He hadn't had any real food since 0645, and then he was allowed clears until 2. He doesn't like apple juice, so I haven't really given it to him in the tube. But that's what he got. His hunger/confusion/what's going on? attitude didn't really kick in until about 515 which was when they took a case instead of us. It was no biggie to us, Owen was being entertained by the staff, playing with their toys, and driving his car up the side of the crib. When we took the dressing off of his chest right before surgery the wire had poked through. Good thing they were taking him in.

The whole procedure from IV lines, sedation, airway, and surgery was about 90 minutes. We went into recovery, and there was our little chunky cherub, asleep with a Oxygen mask on, and satting 100%. I know that he isn't supposed to be doing that, but it was kinda fun to see.  I don't think I have ever seen that before. I saw a 98% when he was in for his gtube. Of course both times he was on high amounts of mask oxygen. (Earlier that day, when crying and a little cold, he was 77-81 on the pulse-ox machine, and when the oxygen was turned off after recovery, he was about 85-88%. Our B-B+ kid!!) He slept for a little while and then the surgeon came around and showed us the incision. I could barely see it! Probably about 10mm. He said that there was a lot of scar tissue so it was hard to navigate through the muscle, and that they finally could retrieve both parts of the wire after doing an xray with fluroscopy to aid in the process. He showed us the foreign body, very similar to a smaller paperclip in size and width. We got to keep it:).  Owen recovered very well, and drank a cup of water! And ate a WHOLE graham cracker! This is BIG for him, had never seen him do either of these in one sitting. As soon as the IV was pulled out we were getting ready to leave. We left about 830. It was a long 12+ hours but so different from his other procedures. Everything went so smoothly.

Upon returning home, Owen wouldn't stop running around pushing his train. He even figured out how to turn it instead of getting stuck when he would push it into walls. Maybe the anesthesia helped him put 2 and 2 together. We laughed at him, enjoyed watching how good he felt, and then Chris put him down. We all slept about 10 hours straight, with a few check ins on Owen.

Hopefully the other wires will stay put. Who knows what lead to this one breaking, but this kid is pretty darn tough! Will post photos of Owen's chest, xray, and foreign body when we get the pics of the xray in december.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

GrAtiTuDe

I can't believe that there was a time that I never knew anyone with cancer. My grandfather died when I was very young from cancer secondary to some exposure in WW2. Other than that, it was so rare.

Fast forward a lifetime (er, 28 years) and I am frequently checking updates on Caring Bridge (a hub for blogs to update friends and family, more focused on treatment and plans and such, vs our family blog that addresses all topics). It started with one friend and BOTH of her children she updated on CB. Very rare, but not any the more comfortable having 2 children with different cancers. Then checking up on Baby Evan, whom I have mentioned many times on the blog. Him and Owen had a great play date a couple weeks back. Evan and Owen would take turns pushing each other on the tricycle! He is at the beginning of yet another round of chemo, lasting about 13 weeks. He has gained some weight and continues to amaze us. My cousin is battling a tumor after being cancer free for a few years. More recently another friend's father with ongoing digestive issues related to his cancer and long term on and off hospitalizations. And just tonight, another close friend's Dad's cancer is back and it has spread. There are too many I could even be leaving someone out just based on a long list....I am just speechless........

The point of this... The point of this blog is.... I just feel so helpless and so lucky at the same time. I feel so helpless for these families. The coping with treatment, outcomes, pain, and the constant fight is like nothing I have personally been through. I am reminded every day, every time I give Owen a bath, or change his clothes (multiple times per day!) that life is precious. His scar is the visual reminder if we needed it. That is why I'm sometimes flash happy with his scar. I feel it is a lesson to everyone (self included!) to let go of all the petty stuff and cherish our time we get here on this beautiful earth. It is so cheesy to say but SO TRUE!  We are so blessed with our Owen, our marriage, family, friends, and our health that it is overwhelming sometimes. 

"Hey Owen, no one is looking, let's see what this fountain has to offer."
 "Aw Owen, this is so neat. I think one of us should jump in."
 "Evan, I love you man. I think you should go first...."
"Here, I will give you a hand..."

These kids crack me up! They make me so happy!

Monday, October 31, 2011

Happy Halloween! Blast from the Past...




                
 Past years Costumes (couldn't find James Taylor and Biggest fan pics) 80's joggers, plumber and toilet. Years before 2007 I didn't have a digital so the pics are in shoeboxes!
 2009 Visiting Mandy, Ben, and Jack in Saratoga Springs
 A fantastic albeit short visit.
 2010 Owen's first Halloween was complete with many pictures taken, and yes, he pulled his tube out.
 Which lead to many adorable tube-free pictures! Aunt Jac came over and we had tootsie-tini's and made caramel corn.
Halloween 2011 What a difference a year makes! We have all come so far! Made some roasted pumpkin seeds this am, and caramel corn (I'm feeling a little ill... ate too much...). Owen drank so well from his cup this morning, about 2.5 ounces of milk! Wahoo! Life is good!


Happy Halloween!